My Phone Voice Had a Better Career Than I Did
I had a phone voice half an octave up, ten degrees brighter, so happy to help that strangers apologized to it. I didn't choose
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That Thing You Can't Stand About Them Might Be Telling You Something
The Graceful Gay — Issue 002 Think of someone who is regularly annoying to you. Not someone you hate, just someone mildly, reliably irritating like the coworker
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Confession №1: I Practiced Coming Out on the Dog
He kept my secret for six years. This column is dedicated to him.
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Grace or Disgrace: Leaving the Group Chat on Read for Three Days
A verdict on the modern art of the unanswered message, from a man who has committed it and been its victim in the same week.
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The Late Bloomer's Field Guide, Entry №1: You Are Not Behind
Everyone you're comparing yourself to rehearsed for a decade. You're not late — you're a limited release.
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